Sex Toys For Pegging – According to Google Trends, there’s been a threefold increase in searches for ‘pegging’ in the last few years – and interest in pegging shows no sign of slowing down. Perhaps partly because people are becoming more open about exploring their kinks, and partly thanks to an increase in pop culture references to pegging – like that one hot scene in Deadpool.
Pegging refers to the act of someone putting on a strap-on and having anal sex with their partner. But it doesn’t sound that sexy described that way, does it? Maybe that’s why sex advice columnist Dan Savage felt it needed its own word – the term ‘pegging’ was coined after a reader competition to pick the best way to describe the practice.
Pegging for beginners
If you’ve never pegged (or been pegged) before but you fancy a try, there are a few things that can help you get started. Naturally first you’re going to need a strap-on and harness – available from all good sex toy shops.
If you’re in it for the long haul, pick a harness that’s comfortable and also makes you feel sexy. There are some pretty cheap harnesses on the market that will do the job OK if you just want to dip your toe in the water or cross something off your bucket list, but if you’re in it for the long haul then a great strap on harness is well worth the investment. Dildo-wise, the etiquette here is that the peggee should always choose the size and shape, particularly the first time you use it. Err on the small side, use plenty of lube, and take things very slowly.
Of course if you want to level up, then add a hands-free sex toy into your pegging session.
Pegging and hands free sex toys
While some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone – mostly thanks to the prostate – many people love a bit of extra stimulation when they’re being pegged. Whether it’s gentle nipple stimulation, or a hand job, or anything else that takes your fancy.
This is where awesome hands-free sex toys come in.
PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL is a hands-free sex toy which sends deep, oscillating vibrations through the head of your penis. The silicone wings wrap around you – whether you’re flaccid or hard – and the toy will stay in place without you needing to hold it there. If you need a bit of extra stimulation while you’re being pegged – or, frankly, if you just want a mind-blowingly intense session – then including PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL (or the couples’ version – PULSE DUO) is a great idea.
Hat tip to the Trysexuals for reminding us of the joys of hands-free sex toys and pegging. In their latest podcast they mention using PULSE:
“It’s something that I can put on and have available to use hands-free while I do something else – looking at porn for instance.”
They also mentioned using PULSE during pegging – the direct vibration, and the fact that the toy is hands-free, makes it a fantastic addition to strap on sex. Want to try it for yourself? You know what to do…
Other hands free sex toys to use during pegging
Blindfolds: the classic staple of any bedroom, from a BDSM dungeon to a vanilla-flavoured boudoir. Using a blindfold during sex is a classic for good reason – removing one sense helps you focus the others on your pegging experience.
Nipple clamps: whether you like them gentle or vicious, nipple clamps are great, particularly if you’re pegging in the missionary position, when the person who’s wearing the strap-on can tug gently on them at just the right moment.
Cock rings: yep, you can use these with a strap-on too. The vibrations from the ring will travel through the strap-on, giving you a thrilling buzz inside when you’re being pegged. Alternatively, wrap a cock-ring around the base of the penis to keep it extra hard while you’re being pegged.
And oh – so many more. If you’re into pegging, almost everything in your sex toy collection can be used at the same time. Not all of them will be hands-free sex toys like PULSE SOLO ESSENTIAL, but once you’ve got the hang of using your strap-on, the only thing limiting you is your own imagination. And perhaps the laws of physics.
