National Orgasm Day is on 31st July in many countries worldwide, and we’re sure people across the UK will be eager to join in the celebrations.
But what if orgasm is a touchy topic for you?
Orgasm can be elusive for many people, perhaps due to stress, tiredness or a few too many drinks. And [delayed orgasm, or an inability to orgasm at all](https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/anorgasmia-in-people-who-have-a-vulva) (known as anorgasmia), are common sexual health problems in the UK.
While we can’t guarantee everyone an orgasm (and suggest visiting your doctor if your issues are long-term), we can give you these unusual tips. Changing up your routine may help you hit the big ‘O’, whether you’re paired up or on your own this National Orgasm Day.
## Unusual Orgasm Tip 1: Improve Partner Sex by Masturbating More
This one is for people who don’t masturbate very much (or at all).
If you usually rely on partner sex for your orgasm, but find it hard to achieve, it may be because you’ve never had chance to work out what you really enjoy. Masturbation is actually one of the best ways to improve your partnered sex life. Once you’ve worked out how to come on your own, you can then instruct your partner in how to get you there.
When you’ve had some ‘me time’, you could even demonstrate to your partner what you’ve learned. We promise they’re going to enjoy – and learn from – watching you!
## Unusual Orgasm Tip 2 – Couples’ Sex Toys Are the Bomb
