Clitoral Stimulation – If you’ve used the same masturbation technique all your life, it’s easy to forget – or simply never realise – just how many different ways there are to stimulate yourself. Many of us learn how to masturbate at an early age, and then stick with what we know forever. But there are plenty of different ways to masturbate, and there may be some that you have never tried.
We want to give you an overview of some different types of clitoral stimulation – whether you’re planning to use these techniques on yourself or you want to learn more about how to give someone else amazing orgasms.
Manual versus sex toy
This is perhaps the most obvious stimulation distinction: manual stimulation versus use of a sex toy. But it’s a false ‘either/or’ distinction: there are many sex toys on the market that provide clitoral stimulation, and the sensations they give can vary greatly. What’s more, when it comes to preferences, you don’t have to choose one or the other: having a selection of sex toys that give different kinds of clitoral stimulation, combined with using your (or your partner’s!) hands for clit stim means you can explore the whole world of wanking without having to pick a side
Manual clitoral stimulation – techniques
Back in 2016, OMGYes launched a website showcasing a huge variety of manual masturbation techniques. Based on a huge study of over 1000 in-depth interviews asking people about how they masturbated, the team at OMGYes created a series of videos and interactive demonstrations aimed at showcasing all these different techniques.
They cover things like edging (where you build to almost-orgasm then pause, then repeat the build-up until you orgasm) as well as the differences between consistency (where you require the same pressure and speed in order to build to orgasm) and hinting (where you tease around your clitoris, and only occasionally touch it directly) as well as many others.
One of the things the research team discovered is that there are at least twelve distinct ways to masturbate – while some people rub the clitoris directly, others prefer using circular motions around it, or alternate rubs with gentle taps to give varied clitoral stimulation. Check out the website to find out more, and see if you can find your technique – or a new one you might like to try.
Vibrations
You may have heard people talking about the difference between a ‘buzz’ and a ‘rumble’ – the former being a higher frequency sensation, and the other providing a lower, deeper feeling. The ‘buzz’ tends to come more from lighter sex toys like bullet vibes, where the ‘rumble’ is more common in larger toys like wands.
Alongside the difference in frequency, there’s also the issue of strength – a low setting on a standard bullet vibrator will give a gentler sensation, while the higher settings will vibrate side-to-side more quickly, giving more stimulation but also sometimes pushing you towards a tingly or numb sensation.
Although generally most people talk about ‘buzz’ as a negative thing, some people do prefer that higher-frequency buzz to a low-pitch rumble, and what you enjoy will depend a lot on your own physiology and personal preferences.
The other key aspect of sex toy stimulation is whether you like steady clitoral stimulation, or you prefer patterns that build you up to orgasm. There are parallels here with the OMGYes research, which found that while some people prefer consistent stimulation, others will use random patterns of taps or rubs on or around their clitoris to give a more varied sensation.