This Friday marks International Fetish Day, a day dedicated to celebrating sexual exploration, individuality, and the diverse ways people express themselves in their intimate lives. Whether you're curious about exploring BDSM or you've been practising for some time, this day reminds us that there is no shame in embracing fetishes and kinks.
Everyone has different desires, and finding what works for you—alone or with a partner—is important in understanding yourself, your desires and curiosities. So, if you've been considering exploring BDSM or want to add some spice to your routine, now is the perfect time to start!
Here are a few products that can help you explore BDSM at any level, with a focus on touch, sensation, and consent. Before we begin, it's crucial you understand that communication and mutual respect are key to any BDSM experience, so always check in with your partner and establish boundaries before you dive into any exploration.
Here are our top picks for exploring this Friday and beyond!
Bound You Ⅱ Shibari Bondage Rope Hogtie Set
Bound You Ⅱ Shibari Bondage Rope Hogtie Set is designed to give couples a luxurious introduction to restraint and sensation play. With pre-tied knots, it's perfect for beginners, and it also means less time tying and more time playing! Shibari is a popular practice yet requires skill and years of practice; however, our pre-tired set lets you explore rope play safely and in the comfort of your bedroom.
Ways to Explore
Use the adjustable cuffs to gently restrain your partner's wrists and ankles. Let your partner feel the difference between freedom and restraint as you explore touch, sensation, and teasing.
After your partner is restrained, you can start to explore sensual touch. This might include using a feather tickler to gently caress their body, focusing on areas that are often neglected during routine touches, like the neck or the inner thighs. Or you could explore temperature play by gently touching an ice cube over sensitive body parts.
Wine Red - Leather Split Tawse Paddle
This beautifully crafted paddle combines a gentle slap with a more intense strike, perfect for couples looking to explore sensation play with varying intensity levels. One side of the paddle is made of solid soft leather, while the other is made of tawse leather for a little sting on impact.
Ways to Explore
Experiment with how the paddle feels on different body parts, from the back to the buttocks, making sure to check in on your partner's comfort level each time. Also, do some research on areas of the body that are safe to spank because there are some no-go areas for safety!
Start by running the smooth side of the paddle along your partner's skin, gently tapping different areas of their body to build anticipation. Always start light and build up to your partner's comfort level. As your partner grows more accustomed to the sensations, increase the pressure of the paddle taps, communicating constantly to ensure their comfort.
Wine Red - Leather Blindfold with Rose Gold Buckle
The Wine Red Leather Blindfold is an elegant addition to any BDSM exploration, adding an element of mystery and heightened sensory play. The soft leather material, combined with the luxurious rose gold buckle, makes it comfortable and stylish for couples experimenting with sensory deprivation. When we remove the use of sight, other senses become more vivid and intense.
Ways to Explore
Use the blindfold to heighten your partner's sensitivity to touch by depriving them of sight. Gently run your fingers over their body, paying close attention to areas that typically don't get much attention, like the ears or the nape of the neck.
Start with soft, slow touches and build intensity, allowing your partner to get accustomed to the sensations before incorporating more stimulating play, such as light spanking or the use of the whip.
For an extra layer of fun, introduce food into your sensory play. Using the blindfold, feed your partner different textures and tastes—think whipped cream, chocolate, honey, or even fresh fruit. The blindfold will enhance the mystery and anticipation of each bite, as your partner won't know what's coming next, making every taste even more exciting.
Let's get started!
Exploring BDSM doesn't have to be intimidating or left to the professionals; it's all about mutual respect, communication, consent and having fun.
By introducing products like the ones above, you can start to explore different sensations, power dynamics, and new ways of connecting with your partner. Always go at your own pace, ensuring that both you and your partner feel comfortable with each step of the journey.
Happy exploring!
